What do you think of me is not my problem!

 What do you think of me is not my problem!

Everyone , including the partner is entitled to different opinions. You can not change them , you have reason to change them ... unless you are unsure of yourself. How would you look at life from another angle ? Not to want to change others, but you change yourself. Do not you want to make other accept you , but you accept yourself. When you accept yourself , you accept the fact that ... you 're not completely accepted by someone.

And do not even bother . Because your mind will tell you that everyone is allowed to have an opinion contrary to yours . Just accept yourself so much that not to matter .

Since then, you've changed! You do not bother his opinion . It's the only change you can make , do not try to change the other person , because it will never succeed .

Think you're going on a street and see a puddle of water. You have two options : to start taking water from the pond and pipette to go elsewhere to get rid of the obstacle that you do not like , or drop it where it is and go on the same way , with the same goal in mind , enjoying the rest of the way and just having so much confidence in you that that obstacle to be insignificant for you.

At the time when the two partners are mature ( personal development ) , may argue that perhaps disagreed . But beyond the opposition of opinion , there is acceptance that it's just different beliefs , not relationship. They never play their relationship to books . Never put in a relationship for a game divergence of opinions . But I have discussions like all or nothing .

Either you turn it on him or he you! You can not accept that the other is a different person ! Would you like to resemble each other perfectly . Will not accept differences and hence leaving all conflicts . May I say a few " tricks" that they use to therapists and couple relationships can you find the strength to apply.

Remember that all the time they appear argumentative , it's good to remember a moment at the beginning of your relationship and feel those emotions and then. After intense feeling those emotions , you can start talking to your partner.

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About life, human character and soul.

 

About life, human character and soul

First I want to tell my visitors a warm Happy New Year for 2013! Today I will open a topic quite commonplace for some other deep enough!

What do you understand by the word nature? I understand how a man to exist on this planet who has made ​​education one in childhood. Not long ago I ran into a harsh reality. One of my so called "friends" started to talk some, do not know how to call them aberrations that his brain thought to pull them to the surface.

And to understand why I decided to open this particular blog is obviously my name was involved and shit out the mouth that were being counts for me. Usually I do not like to post things on the blog but so sad as a man without character as you have the nerve to pull the mouth such words mostly know me?

How can you say that I muddied the person they care for and the above is one of my good friends? I really do not understand the purpose and mindset. Or if you are thinking better that I responded to his advances led him to remove these aberrations on the mouth.

Me left me cold because I soul reconciled statements like planet there are also people who intentionally or unintentionally harm or simply have soul too full of venom and trying to get rid of him.

 Finally cleared everything but sin that you trust a man and one day you actually slam his true face, and regret and last second you trusted and remains one question, WHY?

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I'm happy

 I'm happy

Sometimes it takes so little to be happy ... I'm happy now. Not the kind of happiness that make me bounce one foot in the house, are rather quiet and happy.
I think I have a little of everything I need, and even some more. And I'm grateful for that! Tens thousands of butterflies dancing in my stomach!

I am happy to be alive.
I am happy that someone up there loves me.
I am happy for anyone down here, he loves me.
I am happy because I have a family.
I am happy because true friends that I can count.
I am happy because I am strong.
I am happy because I smile.
I am happy because my future depends on me.
I am happy that do not depend on others.
I am happy because I can do what I want.
I am happy because I see my life.
I am happy because life goes on, whatever happens.

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Life is a bitch, you play as she wants

Life is a bitch, you play as she wants

Life is not as we would like ... though for some it is much more complicated and full of stress ... I know ... life is hard, perhaps too painful for it anymore suffering.

Everything seemed to change too quickly ... people that I trusted and I loved once, they were the ones who let me down.

I think we all have some of these surprises ... is painful and yet it happens. 

You know how they say "what does not kill you makes you stronger" ... makes me stronger ... but I leave some scars unbearable.

I have to live.

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Is very difficult.....

 Is very difficult....

The most difficult thing in this world is to live in peace and harmony with people. It is, perhaps, easier to live with birds and animals. I have met people who prefer living with their dogs than with other human beings! They find their pets more loyal, predictable, and loving, than their close relatives. Why is living with people a problem?

We know that fire is hot and we accept that as a fact. If we are burnt by touching fire, we do not blame it. If a whole house is burnt down, we may condemn other factors or blame our negligence, but would accept fire as is. Its place is undeniable and it is not rejected. Similarly, we accept the coolness of ice, the beauty of flowers, fruits, trees and plants. We enjoy the splendor of Nature acknowledge it as it is without the projections of our mind.

Again, if we are admiring a beautiful, full moon and someone else comes and starts appreciating it, do we say, “Why are you looking at my moon? You have no right to see it!” There is no sense of ownership, no possessiveness; there is acceptance without any projection of likes and dislikes. The Bhagavad-gita, says that a wise person moves everywhere with love and affection. Like the wind blowing freely, he does not get attached to anything.

He accepts all. Sometimes people behave nicely, sometimes they don’t - he is neither elated nor depressed. In another beautiful verse the Lord explains that such a man of wisdom lives with his senses under control, free from personal likes and dislikes, and therefore, enjoys every object, every place, every situation, and every person. Also, we find it difficult to live with people because we have too many expectations from them. If I expect something from another, that person may also expect something from me.

Furthermore, I am unable to fulfill my own expectations of myself. I feel that I should get up and sit in meditation for one hour, but it is difficult to sit for even five minutes; I want to do so many things, but I am unable to do them. Thus, we feel disappointed and frustrated with ourselves, and aggrieved or upset with others when they fail to satisfy our expectations. I saw a sticker that said, “Don’t try to change me. Accept me as I am.” This is the simple rule of how we wish to be treated by others. One is sure to respond by, “I understand all this as far as the moon, ice, trees, and plants go; I also understand that I cannot change fire and so I should accept it; but should I not expect my child to do well in his studies? If my children are committing mistakes, should I not teach, educate, and discipline them? How is it possible not to expect anything?”

It is important to understand the message clearly and completely. The message is that one should accept the fact as it is. Then if a change is necessary, try to make that change, but do not insist on it. Every parent wants the child to perform well and excel whether in sports or in studies. There is nothing wrong with that. But, to expect something that may not be possible for the child to do, and unnecessarily, apply pressure and force, will cause frustration to all.

When one is living with people it may not be possible to have no expectations at all, so one should have reasonable expectations. An artistically inclined child with no aptitude for commerce should not be forced into the family business. Expectations should be reasonable and based on knowledge and wisdom. At the same time, you cannot insist on your way, due to the fact that there are innumerable other factors, which govern the entire universe. As far as Nature or the moon is concerned, we do not feel a sense of ownership or possessiveness.

But with regard to people it is extremely deep-seated and can be very destructive. What we need to have is love and affection. Along with that there should be freedom and space too. Two hands joined together leave a gap and can be easily separated. Similarly, we should give people space. Often we hear people say, “Give me some space please!” If you love a bird, will you cage it and expect it to be happy? It is not possible to love someone and at the same time to also confine them in that love.

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How do you relax after a busy day?

 How do you relax after a busy day?

How do you relax after a busy day?

We ... well armed with good wine and a citrus salad and let it run last film with Sarah Jessica Parker ... obviously I'm talking to all women who understood after interminable SATC, SJP as movies are a good reason to relax intellectual NOT a role model in life.

Usually a busy day ends with a nice evening! What do you say, I am right? I think it would be a welcome and relaxing in a tub full of water and foam .... But do not want to advance in the details ..... nice?

It’s a star twinkling, beautiful night
I hope this night lasts forever, hold my hand
The blue moonlight makes this a beautiful night
Walk across that sky with me

I’m yours – only you can make my heart race – I’m outta control
I’m yours, nobody, nobody can take your place
You drive me crazy

Left and right, you shake me up on this disco night
From top to bottom, from front and back, you flip my heart inside out
You are like cotton candy, I never get sick of you
Before this night is all over, let’s love all night

I still don’t really know love – the moment I first saw you
I felt a strong wave washing over me
Drenching my heart to the deepest corners oh oh oh oh Girl

It’s a star twinkling, beautiful night
I hope this night lasts forever, hold my hand
The blue moonlight makes this a beautiful night
Walk across that sky with me

I’m yours – only you can make my heart race – I’m outta control
I’m yours, nobody, nobody can take your place
You drive me crazy

Something good Nothing better
Just like a limitless credit card
I strengthlessly fall for you, but this feeling isn’t so bad girl
With one cue, I’ll go inside you, without you knowing
You will keep thinking of me, let’s meet in our dreams, I’m waiting for you

I still don’t really know love
Whenever I stood in front of you
I felt a strong wave washing over me
Drenching my heart to the deepest corners oh oh oh oh Girl

It’s a star twinkling, beautiful night
I hope this night lasts forever, hold my hand
The blue moonlight makes this a beautiful night
Walk across that sky with me

I’m yours – only you can make my heart race – I’m outta control
I’m yours, nobody, nobody can take your place
You drive me crazy

I just wanna love you all night long
I want to fall asleep in your arms tonight

It’s a star twinkling, beautiful night
I hope this night lasts forever, hold my hand
The blue moonlight makes this a beautiful night
Walk across that sky with me

I’m yours – only you can make my heart race – I’m outta control
I’m yours, nobody, nobody can take your place
You drive me crazy

It’s a star twinkling beautiful night

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